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      《To Be a Peaceful Person》
       So many of us hold on to little resentment that may have stemmed from an argument,amisunderstanding,or some other painful events.Stubbornly,we wait for someone else to Ileach out to us believing this is the only way we can forgive or rekindle a friendship or family relationship.
       An acquaintance of mine,whoes health isn t very good,recently told me that she hasn,tsDoken to her son for almost three years.“Why not?”I asked.She said that she and her son had a disagreenment about his wife and that she wouldn t speak to hinm again unless he caued first.When I suggested that she be the one to reach out,sheresisted initially and said.“I can t do that.He s the one who should apologize.”She was literally willing to die before reaching out to her only son.Afer a little gentle encouragement.However,she did decide to be the first one to reach out.To her amazment,her son was grateful for her willingness to call and offered an apology of his own.As is usually the case when someone takes the chance and reaches out,everyone wins.
      Whenever we hold on to our anger,we turn “small stuff”into really“big stuff”in oill minds.We start to believe that our positions are more important than our happiness.They are ont.If you want to be a more peaceful person you must understand that being right is aimost never more important than allowing yourself to be happy.The way to be happy is to let go,and reach out.Let other people be right.This doesn t mean that you re wrong - Everything will be fine.You ll experience the peace of letting go,as well as the joy of letting others be right.You ll also norice that,as you reach out and let others be“right”,they will become less defensive and more loving toward you.They might even reach back.But,if for some reason they don t,that s okey,too.You will have the inner satisfaction of knowing that you have done your part to create a more loving world,and certainly you will be more peaceful yourself.

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